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The Older I Get The Trashier I Become

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The Single Sibling

When you're the oldest sibling in a family, you take it upon yourself to pass down words of wisdom to your younger sisters and brothers. The lessons can vary from which college is the right fit, to the best hangover cures, to how to patch up a fig... read more

Singles Should Think of Themselves as Real Estate

New York City is a funny place. The summer apartment shuffle recently came to an end, and my friends snapped up new places like the free Chipotle burritos my gym was giving out this evening (ironic, I know). Like everything else in this city, leas... read more

Hair Today, Date Tomorrow?

Once in awhile, I'll get hair A.D.D. I'll want to change the color, try a new style or simply cut it off. But typically I stick with my basic long, blonde hair. Nothing too special about it. Recently I have been tempted to cut it short, but I am c... read more

Things are Always More Complicated Than They Seem

Recently I was asked for my "philosophy of dating". It took me a while to stop laughing. I mean seriously, a philosophy of dating? That's one of the funniest things I've heard in a while.

But the person persisted and I thought about i... read more

Thank God I Write for Ignighter

Over Labor Day, I signed up for another dating site's free communication weekend as "Research" This was my first foray into online, one-on-one dating, and quite frankly based on their ads, I expected little more than mock turtlenecks and/or a swea... read more

I Miss Movies and Making Out

Ah, first dates. A time for awkward silences or intense lip-locking. Hand-holding or Hell-bound conversations. A connection or a complete disaster. And as we get older, it doesn't seem to get any easier. In fact, it seems to just become more compl... read more

Moving in Together: The Best Bet

I am moving in with my boyfriend in about a month. We are both very excited. But excitement wasn't the only response for either of us when the idea of moving in together was first on the table, it was more excitement mixed with horrible fear and a... read more

Getting to Know You

Lately I've kind of been in an asexual rut. No man has grabbed my attention at a bar. Talking to people seems like too much effort. And after spending months trying to figure it out, I finally decided that, quite frankly, I'd rather be home readin... read more

PDA, Broken Hearts & Status Updates

It's bad enough to see a couple on the street making out in the middle of the sidewalk as you're trying to push by with a bulging bag, Starbucks latte, and a tangled mess of Ipod headphones in tow. But now it seems you can't even sign onto Faceboo... read more

A Little Baggage Goes Nicely with a Little Love

My birthday is coming up and I know what that usually means. Feeling relatively lousy about how far I've made it in life (not far) and how at my age, my parents owned houses, had had both their children, had cars, and could afford lunch every sing... read more

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